My Mother Became Brave

My name is Tze Jian, but all my friend call me TJ. I’m writing coz I want to let you know some good news.

This happen around the time I was going to polytechnic and things werent going so well. My excuse of a dad was beating my mother – come on, I’m not blind okays – and he always stink of alcohol. Then sometimes when my mother asked me to help her do laundry coz she is very pain, I also smell some perfume on his clothes.

My mum is not wasteful so she never buy perfume so I think my ‘dad’ got the smell from someone else. Anyway my mum also cannot do anything because she never finish school. So she scared to leave him coz after that, how she take care of herself? And also how she take care of me? So she just tolerate and hopefully it will get better one day.

I complain to my mum but I thought she was talking a lot of nonsense coz she asked me to be patience and forgive my father. How can I forgive the man who hurt our family like that?!?!! I always think I wish he go to hell. I am quite shame now because he is still my father so I shouldn’t think bad like that about him. But anyway the fact is the fact and at the time I think like that.

Anyways there was no one to help me. So my friend told me about this dharma centre in Geylang and I go there to ask for help. The monk there talk about karma and I thought what kind of nonsense is this!!! Then he asked me to do this practice so I do, coz I mean what is there to lose right. I do for a few months then only after that I find out the practice is banned by Tibetan govt. Can you imagine, I was shocked!! I was thinking how come like that coz after I start chanting then my mum become a bit more brave. She secretly go and get a jobs, then one day she also report my dad to police. They take him away, and now he is in alcohol rehabilitation.

So I don’t know why you ban him but anyway, this is how Dorje Shugden had helped me.

~ Chiu Tze Jian ~

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  1. Dorje Shugden is a highly attained being…..He is a Dharma Protector and who is an emanation of Buddha Manjushri. When you pray to Him with good motivation, He will help you to go through whatever difficulties that you have.

    With my experiences, Dorje Shugden has helped me and my love ones a lot!! Which I came to know Him and His prayers no long after that. I will not listen to anybody say bad about Dorje Shugden……by reading His history back 350 years ago, you will know who is HE. Please log in Dorje Shugden – An illustrated Story….you will know Him more and after reading it, you will increase tremendous faith in Him.

  2. You mother was not cowardly but rather she was being selfless thinking of you and acting accordingly, in her mind, not to jeopardize your chances of an education.

    But, I rejoice that she eventually found a way out with your indirect help of propitiating Dorje Shugden. Dorje Shugden granted you your wish for a better life for your mother when you connected to him via your practice. You cleared your negative karma for such happenings and created merits to benefit from it and to benefit others, in this case, your mother. When your mother is self-sufficient and happy, then only can you concentrate in other areas of your life for example your studies and your practice.

    That is how skillful and compassionate Dorje Shugden is.

    Thank you for your sharing. May it help more people to understand that the practice of Dorje Shugden is very beneficial and not harmful.

  3. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Yes, it is rather unfortunate that the Tibetan Leaders banned the precious and helpful practice of Dorje Shugden, especially when so many people need his help nowadays. Using the ban as a political tool to cover their failures and depriving the people of help needed is really “stupid”. I am glad that your mom is gaining the courage to take charge of her life and for you too. Dorje Shugden always works his miracles when we are sincere in our prayers to him. May you and your family always be blessed by Dorje Shugden.

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