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Our Precious Human Rebirth
« on: November 03, 2010, 03:08:30 PM »
Something interesting that caught my attention, especially the quote from Pabongka Rinpoche at the end of this article.

Are we all aware that how fortunate we are to have this precious human rebirth?

Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_beings_in_Buddhism


Qualities of human lif
e

The status of life as a human, at first glance, has nothing very special about it. In the hierarchy of Buddhist cosmology it is low but not entirely at the bottom. It is not intrinsically marked by extremes of happiness or suffering, but all the states of consciousness in the universe, from hellish suffering to divine joy to serene tranquility can be experienced within the human world.

Humans can be seen as highly favored, in that they have an immediate reason to seek out the Dharma and yet also have the means to listen to it and follow it. Among the lower realms, Pretas, and dwellers in the Narakas are gripped by pain and fear, and can only endure their lot but cannot better themselves. Animals are intellectually unable to understand the Dharma in full. The way of life of the Asuras is dominated by violence and antithetical to the teachings of the Dharma, while most of the Devas simply enjoy reaping the fruits of their past actions and do not concern themselves with the future. When their past karmas have all had their result, these devas will fall into lower worlds and suffer again. The lowest sorts of devas deal with strife, love, and loss just as humans do, but even so they lack the spur of imminent mortality that can lead humans to seek, not merely a better future life, but an escape from sa?s?ra altogether.

For this reason, life in the world of humans is known as "the precious human rebirth". Born close to the pivot point of happiness and suffering, humans have a unique capacity for moral choices with long-term significance.

The human rebirth is said to be extremely rare. The Bodhicary?vat?ra compares it to a wooden cattle-yoke floating on the waves of the ocean, tossed this way and that by the winds and currents. The likelihood of a half-blind turtle, rising from the depths of the ocean to the surface once in a hundred years, putting its head through the hole in the yoke is considered greater than that of a being in sa?s?ra achieving rebirth as a human.

Among humans there are also better and worse conditions for attaining enlightenment. Besides being born as a human, the favorable conditions for obtaining enlightenment are:
Being born a human at a time when a Buddha has arisen, has taught the Dharma, and has left a Sa?gha that carries on the teachings; at such times there is a chance to learn the Dharma.

Being born a human in countries where the Dharma is known. Buddhist commentaries contrast the "central lands" where Buddhism is known and can be practiced (originally just northern India, but now including a much larger portion of the globe) with "border countries" where Buddhism is unknown or cannot be practiced due to legal or practical impediments, for instance, a lack of qualified teachers. Technically a "central land" is one which possesses any one of the Buddhist sa?ghas of bhik?us, bhik?u??s, up?sakas or up?sik?s.

Being born a human who has the physical and intellectual capacity to grasp the basic message of the Dharma.
Accepting the relationship between good or evil actions and their consequences, believing that good actions will lead to a happier life, a better rebirth or to enlightenment.

Confidence in the moral teachings conveyed in the Vinaya.
Avoiding crimes against people and against the Dharma.
Having sincere compassion for other people.

Just as it is difficult to obtain birth as a human, it is also difficult to be born at the time when a Buddha's teaching is still available. Out of the infinite kalpas (incredibly long periods) in time, most have no Buddhas appearing in them at all. The present kalpa is called "Fortunate" because it is said that 1,000 Buddhas will appear in it, something that is very unusual.

For this reason, Buddhist teachers say that one's present condition as a human should be valued very highly, and not allowed to slide by, as the combination of existence as a human and the presence of a Buddha's teaching may not come again for a very long time. Any human, in this view, who finds himself or herself in a position to learn the Dharma, would be remiss if he or she did not take advantage of it. This view also stands in contrast to those who would claim that, if one is to be reborn multiple times, there is no need to worry about one's actions in this life as they can always be amended in the future; rather, there is no assurance that in a long series of lives one will ever obtain the right circumstances for enlightenment, so it is important to seize the day.

With regard to a fortunate human life, Pabongka Rinpoche said: "Instead of feeling so much regret when we lose our money, we should develop regret when we waste our human life."
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Re: Our Precious Human Rebirth
« Reply #1 on: November 03, 2010, 06:34:34 PM »
Hi Helena,

Thanks for posting this. It's always a good reminder to contemplate on how lucky I am to be here - as a human being, with access to (and interest in) the Dharma. So many people take their lives for granted and waste their lives day by day just on their attachments. I have my fair share (and more) of attachments, but at least I am fortunate enough to have learned some Dharma and know that i should be working on reducing them (and I am - work in progress). This article just reminds me that I need to work harder and faster because i don't know when my time is running out.

Cheers!
Kate Walker - a wannabe wisdom Being

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Re: Our Precious Human Rebirth
« Reply #2 on: November 04, 2010, 06:11:21 AM »
What is so precious about the human rebirth?
It is not precious and there is no difference if we do not use the qualities we have.

Thus, what is so precious about the human rebirth if we live like animals. We are no different from beings of the animal realms if we only exists out of fear, and are preoccupied and react to every deluded impulse and instinct.

This precious human rebirth has all the aggregates which a Buddha possesses...It blows my mind when I think about the fact that the qualities of what I have right now has the capability and potential of taking me to achieve enlightenment.

The preciousness lies in its potential!
Why is it considered  "potential"? Because most of us do not harness and use the qualities we have been endowed with. It does no good to us nor anyone if it remains just as "potential".

So how do we truly start to make this human rebirth precious?
In Guru Yoga of Manjunatha Je Tsongkhapa "...he performed the practices with utmost diligence, who abandoned the eight worldly objectives and made the most meaningful use of the eighteen opportune conditions during these degenerate times. "

Eight World objectives/concerns:
- to seek material gain
- avoid material loss
- seek praise
- avoid blame
- seek acceptance
- avoid rejection
- seek pleasures
- avoid displeasures


18 Opportune Conditions includes:
8 freedoms and 10 endowments


Thank you for Helena for posting the illustrious master, H.H Pabongkha Rinpoche on this topic :
 "Instead of feeling so much regret when we lose our money, we should develop regret when we waste our human life." - H.H Pabongkha Rinpoche

And quoting wisdombeing "work harder and faster because i don't know when my time is running out"  is what I will be doing.

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Re: Our Precious Human Rebirth
« Reply #3 on: November 05, 2010, 09:00:09 AM »
I attended a class once where they were discussing the precious human rebirth. Within the discussion, we were asked to also consider the connection between this, and contemplations on ageing and death, the mortality and decay of the human body.

I think this contemplation is also helpful for appreciating our human rebirth. I find that thinking about ageing or how frail our human bodies actually are is very useful for appreciating what we have and making the most of our lives right here, right now.

Every day, our bodies are ageing, getting weaker - what we are capable of doing now may not be so in a few year's time when we are riddled with illnesses, or when our bodies become weak and gnarled and it becomes difficult for us to even more around. It is not just a precious human rebirth, it is precious day-to-day living!

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Re: Our Precious Human Rebirth
« Reply #4 on: November 05, 2010, 11:30:30 AM »
I attended a class once where they were discussing the precious human rebirth. Within the discussion, we were asked to also consider the connection between this, and contemplations on ageing and death, the mortality and decay of the human body.

I think this contemplation is also helpful for appreciating our human rebirth. I find that thinking about ageing or how frail our human bodies actually are is very useful for appreciating what we have and making the most of our lives right here, right now.

Every day, our bodies are ageing, getting weaker - what we are capable of doing now may not be so in a few year's time when we are riddled with illnesses, or when our bodies become weak and gnarled and it becomes difficult for us to even more around. It is not just a precious human rebirth, it is precious day-to-day living!

Yes..powerful point to meditate on. Most of us meditate on the deluded projection that we are immortals..hmm...

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Re: Our Precious Human Rebirth
« Reply #5 on: November 21, 2010, 03:12:37 PM »
Like a dream,
Whatever I enjoy
Will become a memory:
The past is not revisited

- by Shantideva

Since Death alone is certain and the time of death uncertain, what should I do?

What am I here for? Am I living in such a way that I can die without regrets? How much of what I do is compromise? Do I keep postponing what I 'really" want to do until conditions are more favourable?

Asking such questions interrupts indulgence in the comforts of routine and shatters illusions about a cherished sense of self-importance. It forces me to seek again the impulse that moves me from the depths, and to turn aside from the shallows of habitual patterns. It requires that I examine my attachments to physical health, financial independence, loving frineds. For they are easily lost: I cannot ultimately rely on them. Is there anything I can depend upon?

It might be that all I can trust in the end is my intergrity to keep asking such questions as :
Since death alone is certain and the time of death uncertain, what should I do?

And then to act on them

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Re: Our Precious Human Rebirth
« Reply #6 on: November 28, 2010, 05:59:15 PM »
Thanks for sharing, Beggar and everyone else here.

Yes, I find the meditation on impermanence very powerful.

Many people always think that we Buddhists are so morbid because we tend to contemplate on death and impermanence so much.

I used to think that these subject matters are also very morbid but then again, I realised it was just my self-cherishing mind talking in total ignorance, as usual.

It is really true - if we do not understand death, we cannot appreciate how to live. If we do not understand impermanence, how can we begin to live out our precious human rebirth.



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Re: Our Precious Human Rebirth
« Reply #7 on: December 02, 2010, 03:51:29 AM »
Like a dream,
Whatever I enjoy
Will become a memory:
The past is not revisited

- by Shantideva

Since Death alone is certain and the time of death uncertain, what should I do?


These are the questions that should be in our mind ALL THE TIME.

Like DSFriend commented the preciousness of human life lies in its potentiality in reaching the highest attainment -buddhahood. Without this aspiration we are like animals going through life with the ordinary purpose of working for food, shelter, wealth & procreation.

However, knowing this fact intellectually is not enough because most of us still live as if death will not happen to us.

The Guru , on the other hand, realises this  and that's why he is constantly pushing his students to go beyond his/her comfort level.
If we practice without the guidance of a qualified teacher, we shall delude ourselves into thinking what we are doing is enough. Therefore the path of Guru Devotion is also called the quick path because through the Guru we practice purification and accumulation in tandem.


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Re: Our Precious Human Rebirth
« Reply #8 on: December 03, 2010, 03:52:18 PM »
According to the lamrim, it is correct to meditate on the fragility of the human life before we meditate on its preciousness.
The meditation on death starts the teachings shared with the small scope, and the right time to do this meditation is at the beginning, in the meantime and at the end - that is:
1. at all times.
2. that we don't reach a stage where this meditation is not necessary anymore.

A correct meditation on death makes the meditation on the previous human life most powerful -and indeed it is the potential that makes the life precious nothing else.

I really like the posts on this topic, it's wonderful to know that there are some of us around that think and post on such important topics rather than waste their time in useless activities.

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Re: Our Precious Human Rebirth
« Reply #9 on: December 03, 2010, 03:55:09 PM »
(I, of course, meant PRECIOUS human life, not PREVIOUS human life
heheheheee.... It is funny to imagine a meditation on the previous human life.. lol..)

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Re: Our Precious Human Rebirth
« Reply #10 on: December 04, 2010, 05:43:08 AM »
I agree with HR - I love the posts in here and how helpful it has been to me personally.

I appreciate it so much that individuals took the time and trouble to really share something meaningful and valuable with the rest of us so that we may enrich our own understanding and knowledge.

I found some more information on the net on Death Meditation in relation to Buddhism. Hope this is helpful to everyone here. I shall also start a new topic of this as well.


Source: http://www.buddhanet.net/deathtib.htm

DEATH AND DYING IN THE TIBETAN BUDDHIST TRADITION
Compiled by: Ven. Pende Hawter

Contemplation and meditation on death and impermanence are regarded as very important in Buddhism for two reasons : (1) it is only by recognising how precious and how short life is that we are most likely to make it meaningful and to live it fully and (2) by understanding the death process and familiarizing ourself with it, we can remove fear at the time of death and ensure a good rebirth.

Because the way in which we live our lives and our state of mind at death directly influence our future lives, it is said that the aim or mark of a spiritual practitioner is to have no fear or regrets at the time of death. People who practice to the best of their abilities will die, it is said, in a state of great bliss. The mediocre practitioner will die happily. Even the initial practitioner will have neither fear nor dread at the time of death. So one should aim at achieving at least the smallest of these results.

There are two common meditations on death in the Tibetan tradition. The first looks at the certainty and imminence of death and what will be of benefit at the time of death, in order to motivate us to make the best use of our lives. The second is a simulation or rehearsal of the actual death process, which familiarizes us with death and takes away the fear of the unknown, thus allowing us to die skilfully. Traditionally, in Buddhist countries, one is also encouraged to go to a cemetery or burial ground to contemplate on death and become familiar with this inevitable event.

The first of these meditations is known as the nine-round death meditation, in which we contemplate the three roots, the nine reasonings, and the three convictions, as described below:

A. DEATH IS CERTAIN

1. There is no possible way to escape death. No-one ever has, not even Jesus, Buddha, etc. Of the current world population of over 5 billion people, almost none will be alive in 100 years time.

2. Life has a definite, inflexible limit and each moment brings us closer to the finality of this life. We are dying from the moment we are born.

3. Death comes in a moment and its time is unexpected. All that separates us from the next life is one breath.

Conviction: To practise the spiritual path and ripen our inner potential by cultivating positive mental qualities and abandoning disturbing mental qualities.

B. THE TIME OF DEATH IS UNCERTAIN

4. The duration of our lifespan is uncertain. The young can die before the old, the healthy before the sick, etc.

5. There are many causes and circumstances that lead to death, but few that favour the sustenance of life.

Even things that sustain life can kill us, for example food, motor vehicles, property.

6. The weakness and fragility of one's physical body contribute to life's uncertainty.

The body can be easily destroyed by disease or accident, for example cancer, AIDS, vehicle accidents, other disasters.

Conviction: To ripen our inner potential now, without delay.

C. THE ONLY THING THAT CAN HELP US AT THE TIME OF DEATH IS OUR MENTAL/SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT

(because all that goes on to the next life is our mind with its karmic (positive or negative) imprints.)

7. Worldly possessions such as wealth, position, money can't help

8. Relatives and friends can neither prevent death nor go with us.

9. Even our own precious body is of no help to us. We have to leave it behind like a shell, an empty husk, an overcoat.

Conviction: To ripen our inner potential purely, without staining our efforts with attachment to worldly concerns.

The second meditation simulates or rehearses the actual death process. Knowledge of this process is particularly important because advanced practitioners can engage in a series of yogas that are modelled on death, intermediate state (Tibetan: bar-do) and rebirth until they gain such control over them that they are no longer subject to ordinary uncontrolled death and rebirth.

It is therefore essential for the practitioner to know the stages of death and the mind-body relationship behind them. The description of this is based on a presentation of the winds, or currents of energy, that serve as foundations for various levels of consciousness, and the channels in which they flow. Upon the serial collapse of the ability of these winds to serve as bases of consciousness, the internal and external events of death unfold. Through the power of meditation, the yogi makes the coarse winds dissolve into the very subtle life-bearing wind at the heart. This yoga mirrors the process that occurs at death and involves concentration on the psychic channels and the channel-centres (chakras) inside the body.

At the channel-centres there are white and red drops, upon which physical and mental health are based. The white is predominant at the top of the head and the red at the solar plexus. These drops have their origin in a white and red drop at the heart centre, and this drop is the size of a small pea and has a white top and red bottom. It is called the indestructible drop, since it lasts until death. The very subtle life-bearing wind dwells inside it and, at death, all winds ultimately dissolve into it, whereupon the clear light vision of death dawns.

The physiology of death revolves around changes in the winds, channels and drops. Psychologically, due to the fact that consciousnesses of varying grossness and subtlety depend on the winds, like a rider on a horse, their dissolving or loss of ability to serve as bases of consciousness induces radical changes in conscious experience.

Death begins with the sequential dissolution of the winds associated with the four elements (earth, water, fire and air). "Earth" refers to the hard factors of the body such as bone, and the dissolution of the wind associated with it means that that wind is no longer capable of serving as a mount or basis for consciousness. As a consequence of its dissolution, the capacity of the wind associated with "water" (the fluid factors of the body) to act as a mount for consciousness becomes more manifest. The ceasing of this capacity in one element and its greater manifestation in another is called "dissolution" - it is not, therefore, a case of gross earth dissolving into water.

Simultaneously with the dissolution of the earth element, four other factors dissolve (see Chart 1), accompanied by external signs (generally visible to others) and an internal sign (the inner experience of the dying person). The same is repeated in serial order for the other three elements (see Charts 2-4), with corresponding external and internal signs.

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CHART 1: FIRST CYCLE OF SIMULTANEOUS DISSOLUTION

Factor dissolving   External sign   Internal sign
earth element   body becomes very thin, limbs loose; sense that body is sinking under the earth   
aggregate of forms

limbs become smaller, body becomes weak and powerless

 

basic mirror-like wisdom (our ordinary consciousness that clearly perceives many objects simultaneously)

sight becomes unclear and dark

appearance of mirages

eye sense

one cannot open or close eyes

 

colours and shapes

lustre of body diminishes; one's strength is consumed

 

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CHART 2: SECOND CYCLE OF SIMULTANEOUS DISSOLUTION

Factor dissolving   External sign   Internal sign
water element

saliva, sweat, urine, blood and regenerative fluid dry greatly

 

aggregate of feelings (pleasure, pain and neutrality)

body consciousness can no longer experience the three types of feelings that accompany sense consciousnesses

 

basic wisdom of equality (our ordinary consciousness mindful of pleasure, pain and neutral feelings as feelings)

one is no longer mindful of the feelings accompanying the mental consciousness

appearance of smoke

ear sense

one no longer hears external or internal sounds

 

sounds

'ur' sound in ears no longer arises

 

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CHART 3: THIRD CYCLE OF SIMULTANEOUS DISSOLUTION

Factor dissolving   External sign   Internal sign
fire element

one cannot digest food or drink

 

aggregate of discrimination

one is no longer mindful of affairs of close persons

 

basic wisdom of analysis (our ordinary consciousness mindful of the individual names, purposes and so forth of close persons)

one can no longer remember the names of close persons

appearance of fireflies or sparks within smoke

nose sense

inhalation weak, exhalation strong and lengthy

 

odours

one cannot smell

 

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CHART 4: FOURTH CYCLE OF SIMULTANEOUS DISSOLUTION

Factor dissolving   External sign   Internal sign
wind element

the ten winds move to heart; inhalation and exhalation ceases

 

aggregate of compositional factors

one cannot perform physical actions

 

basic wisdom of achieving activities (our ordinary consciousness mindful of external activities, purposes and so forth)

one is no longer mindful of external worldly activities, purposes and so forth

appearance of a sputtering butter-lamp about to go out

tongue sense

tongue becomes thick and short; root of tongue becomes blue

 

tastes

one cannot experience tastes

 

body sense and tangible objects

one cannot experience smoothness or roughness

 

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CHART 5: FIFTH TO EIGTH CYCLES OF DISSOLUTION

Factor dissolving   Cause of appearance   Internal sign
FIFTH CYCLE
eighty conceptions

winds in right and left channels above heart enter central channel at top of head

at first, burning butter-lamp; then, clear vacuity filled with white light

SIXTH CYCLE
mind of white appearance

winds in right and left channels below heart enter central channel at base of spine

very clear vacuity filled with red light

SEVENTH CYCLE
mind of red increase

upper and lower winds gather at heart; then winds enter drop at heart

at first, vacuity filled with thick darkness; then as if swooning unconsciously

EIGHTH CYCLE
mind of black near-attainment

all winds dissolve into the very subtle life-bearing wind in the indestructible drop at the heart

very clear vacuity free of the white, red and black appearances - the mind of clear light of death

(The above charts are taken from "Death, Intermediate State and Rebirth in Tibetan Buddhism" by Lati Rinbochay and Jeffrey Hopkins)

Upon the inception of the fifth cycle the mind begins to dissolve, in the sense that coarser types cease and subtler minds become manifest. First, conceptuality ceases, dissolving into a mind of white appearance. This subtler mind, to which only a vacuity filled by white light appears, is free from coarse conceptuality. It, in turn, dissolves into a heightened mind of red appearance, which then dissolves into a mind of black appearance. At this point all that appears is a vacuity filled by blackness, during which the person eventually becomes unconscious. In time this is cleared away, leaving a totally clear emptiness (the mind of clear light) free from the white, red and black appearances (see Chart 5). This is the final vision of death.

This description of the various internal visions correlates closely with the literature on the near-death experience. People who have had a near-death experience often describe moving from darkness (for example a black tunnel) towards a brilliant, peaceful, loving light. A comprehensive study comparing death and near-death experiences of Tibetans and Euro-Americans has shown many similarities between the two (Carr, 1993). Care must be taken though in such comparisons because the near-death experience is not actual death, that is, the consciousness permanently leaving the body.

Since the outer breath ceased some time before (in the fourth cycle), from this point of view the point of actual death is related not to the cessation of the outer breath but to the appearance of the mind of clear light. A person can remain in this state of lucid vacuity for up to three days, after which (if the body has not been ravaged by illness) the external sign of drops of red or white liquid emerging from the nose and sexual organ occur, indicating the departure of consciousness.

Other signs of the consciousness leaving the body are 1) when all heat has left the area of the heart centre (in the centre of the chest), 2) the body starts to smell or decompose, 3) a subtle awareness that the consciousness has left and the body has become like 'an empty shell', 4) a slumping of the body in a practitioner who has been sitting in meditation after the stopping of the breath. Buddhists generally prefer that the body not be removed for disposal before one or more of these signs occur, because until then the consciousness is still in the body and any violent handling of it may disturb the end processes of death. A Buddhist monk or nun or friend should ideally be called in before the body is moved in order for the appropriate prayers and procedures to be carried out.

When the clear light vision ceases, the consciousness leaves the body and passes through the other seven stages of dissolution (black near-attainment, red increase etc.) in reverse order. As soon as this reverse process begins the person is reborn into an intermediate state between lives, with a subtle body that can go instantly wherever it likes, move through solid objects etc., in its journey to the next place of rebirth.

The intermediate state can last from a moment to seven days, depending on whether or not a suitable birthplace is found. If one is not found the being undergoes a "small death", experiencing the eight signs of death as previously described (but very briefly). He/she then again experiences the eight signs of the reverse process and is reborn in a second intermediate state. This can happen for a total of seven births in the intermediate state (making a total of forty-nine days) during which a place of rebirth must be found.

The "small death" that occurs between intermediate states or just prior to taking rebirth is compared to experiencing the eight signs (from the mirage-like vision to the clear light) when going into deep sleep or when coming out of a dream. Similarly also, when entering a dream or when awakening from sleep the eight signs of the reverse process are experienced.

These states of increasing subtlety during death and of increasing grossness during rebirth are also experienced in fainting and orgasm as well as before and after sleeping and dreaming, although not in complete form. It is this great subtlety and clarity of the mind during the death process that makes it so valuable to use for advanced meditation practices, and why such emphasis is put on it in Buddhism. Advanced practitioners will often stay in the clear light meditation for several days after the breathing has stopped, engaging in these advanced meditations, and can achieve liberation at this time.

The Buddhist view is that each living being has a continuity or stream of consciousness that moves from one life to the next. Each being has had countless previous lives and will continue to be reborn again and again without control unless he/she develops his/her mind to the point where, like the yogis mentioned above, he/she gains control over this process. When the stream of consciousness or mind moves from one life to the next it brings with it the karmic imprints or potentialities from previous lives. Karma literally means "action", and all of the actions of body, speech and mind leave an imprint on the mind-stream. These karmas can be negative, positive or neutral, depending on the action. They can ripen at any time in the future, whenever conditions are suitable. These karmic seeds or imprints are never lost.

At the time of death (clear light stage) the consciousness (very subtle mind) leaves the body and the person takes the body of an intermediate state being. They are in the form that they will take in their next life (some texts say the previous life), but in a subtle rather than a gross form. As mentioned previously, it can take up to forty-nine days to find a suitable place of rebirth. This rebirth is propelled by karma and is uncontrolled. In effect the karma of the intermediate state being matches that of its future parents. The intermediate state being has the illusory appearance of its future parents copulating. It is drawn to this place by the force of attraction to its parent of the opposite sex, and it is this desire that causes the consciousness of the intermediate state being to enter the fertilized ovum. This happens at or near the time of conception and the new life has begun.

One will not necessarily be reborn as a human being. Buddhists describe six realms of existence that one can be reborn into, these being the hell realms, the preta (hungry ghost) realm, the animal realm, the human realm, the jealous god (asura) realm and the god (sura) realms. One's experience in these situations can range from intense suffering in the hell realms to unimaginable pleasures in the god realms. But all of these levels of existence are regarded as unsatisfactory by the spiritual practitioner because no matter how high one goes within this cyclic existence, one may one day fall down again to the lower realms of existence. So the aim of the spiritual practitioner is to develop his/her mind to the extent where a stop is put to this uncontrolled rebirth, as mentioned previously. The practitioner realises that all six levels of existence are ultimately in the nature of suffering, so wishes to be free of them forever.

The state of mind at the time of death is regarded as extremely important, because this plays a vital part in the situation one is reborn into. This is one reason why suicide is regarded in Buddhism as very unfortunate, because the state of mind of the person who commits suicide is usually depressed and negative and is likely to throw them into a lower rebirth. Also, it doesn't end the suffering, it just postpones it to another life.

When considering the spiritual care of the dying, it can be helpful to divide people into several different categories, because the category they are in will determine the most useful approach to use. These categories are: 1) whether the person is conscious or unconscious, and 2) whether they have a religious belief or not. In terms of the first category, if the person is conscious they can do the practices themselves or someone can assist them, but if they are unconscious someone has to do the practices for them. For the second category, if a person has specific religious beliefs, these can be utilised to help them. If they do not, they still need to be encouraged to have positive/virtuous thoughts at the time of death, such as reminding them of positive things they have done during their life.

For a spiritual practitioner, it is helpful to encourage them to have thoughts such as love, compassion, remembering their spiritual teacher. It is beneficial also to have an image in the room of Jesus, Mary, Buddha, or some other spiritual figure that may have meaning for the dying person. It may be helpful for those who are with the dying person to say some prayers, recite mantras etc. - this could be silent or aloud, whatever seems most appropriate.

However, one needs to be very sensitive to the needs of the dying person. The most important thing is to keep the mind of the person happy and calm. Nothing should be done (including certain spiritual practices) if this causes the person to be annoyed or irritated. There is a common conception that it is good to read "The Tibetan Book of the Dead" to the dying person, but if he/she is not familiar with the particular deities and practices contained in it, then this is not likely to prove very beneficial.

Because the death process is so important, it is best not to disturb the dying person with noise or shows of emotion. Expressing attachment and clinging to the dying person can disturb the mind and therefore the death process, so it is more helpful to mentally let the person go, to encourage them to move on to the next life without fear. It is important not to deny death or to push it away, just to be with the dying person as fully and openly as possible, trying to have an open and deep sharing of the person's fear, pain, joy, love, etc.

As mentioned previously, when a person is dying, their mind becomes much more subtle, and they are more open to receiving mental messages from those people close to them. So silent communication and prayer can be very helpful. It is not necessary to talk much. The dying person can be encouraged to let go into the light, into God's love etc. (again, this can be verbal or mental).

It can be very helpful to encourage the dying person to use breathing meditation - to let go of the thoughts and concentrate on the movement of the breath. This can be helpful for developing calmness, for pain control, for acceptance, for removing fear. It can help the dying person to get in touch with their inner stillness and peace and come to terms with their death. This breathing technique can be especially useful when combined with a mantra, prayer, or affirmation (i.e. half on the in-breath, half on the out-breath).

One of the Tibetan lamas, Sogyal Rinpoche, says that for up to about twenty-one days after a person dies they are more connected to the previous life than to the next one. So for this period in particular the loved ones can be encouraged to continue their (silent) communication with the deceased person - to say their good-byes, finish any unfinished business, reassure the dead person, encourage them to let go of their old life and to move on to the next one. It can be reassuring even just to talk to the dead person and at some level to know that they are probably receiving your message. The mind of the deceased person at this stage can still be subtle and receptive.

For the more adept practitioners there is also the method of transference of consciousness at the time of death (Tibetan: po-wa). With training, at the time of death, the practitioner can project his mind upwards from his heart centre through his crown directly to one of the Buddha pure realms, or at least to a higher rebirth. Someone who has perfected this training can also assist others at the time of death to project their mind to a good rebirth.

It is believed that if the consciousness leaves the body of the dead person through the crown or from a higher part of the body, it is likely to result in a good type of rebirth. Conversely, if the consciousness leaves from a lower part of the body this is likely to result in rebirth in one of the lower realms. For this reason, when a person dies it is believed that the first part of the body that should be touched is the crown. The crown is located about eight finger widths (of the person being measured) back from the (original) hairline. To rub or tap this area or gently pull the crown hair after a person dies is regarded as very beneficial and may well help the person to obtain a higher rebirth. Their are special blessed pills (po-wa pills) that can be placed on the crown after death which also facilitates this process.

Once the consciousness has left the body (which, as mentioned earlier, can take up to three days) it doesn't matter how the body is disposed of or handled (including the carrying out of a post-mortem examination) because in effect it has just become an empty shell. However, if the body is disposed of before the consciousness has left, this will obviously be very disturbing for the person who is going through the final stages of psychological dissolution.

This raises the question of whether or not it is advisable to donate one's organs after dying. The usual answer given by the Tibetan lamas to this question is that if the wish to donate one's organs is done with the motivation of compassion, then any disturbance to the death process that this causes is far outweighed by the positive karma that one is creating by this act of giving. It is another way in which one can die with a positive and compassionate mind.

A Tibetan tradition which is becoming more popular in the West is to get part of the remains of the deceased (e.g. ashes, hair, nails) blessed and then put into statues, tsa-tsas (Buddha images made of clay or plaster) or stupas (reliquary monuments representing the Buddha's body, speech and mind). These stupas for instance could be kept in the person's home, larger ones could be erected in a memorial garden. Making offerings to these or circumambulating them and so on is regarded as highly meritorious, both for the person who has died and for the loved ones.

There are also rituals for caring for the dead, for guiding the dead person through the intermediate state into a good rebirth. Such a ritual is "The Tibetan Book of the Dead", more correctly titled "Liberation Through Hearing in the Bardo".
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Re: Our Precious Human Rebirth
« Reply #11 on: March 13, 2011, 05:20:24 PM »
The perfect human life would include the following...

8 FREEDOMS & 10 ENDOWMENTS

Remember that right now I have the 8 freedoms:
1. I am not in hell being continuously tortured
2. I am not living as a hungry ghost, always having hunger and thirst
3. I am not an ignorant animal
4. I have some feeling for good and bad
5. I am able to study religion
6. The teachings of the Buddha are now available
7. I have a healthy mind, not crazy
8. I am not a god, only indulging in pleasures

Remember that right now I have the 10 endowments:
- 5 Personal:
1. I am a human being
2. I have access to the teachings of the Buddha
3. I have all my organs
4. I have not killed my parents or bodhisattvas etc.
5. I have the possibility to choose my life philosophy or religion freely
- 5 Circumstantial:
6. A Buddha has come in this era
7. He has taught the Dharma
8. The Dharma is still available in the world
9. People are still practising Dharma
10. Others generally have love in their hearts

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It takes a lot of merit to achieve just one of these and that we have the merit to have all 18 already in this life, we should practice the Dharma now. Since we have the merit to have achieved all 18 in this lifetime, we should seize this precious opportunity to practice the Dharma all the way. We don't know know when we will ever meet the Dharma ever again. Future lives is uncertain and the having a human rebirth is as uncommon as summer flowers blooming in mid-autumn. Hence, the Dharma should be practiced with the 8 worldly Dharmas so we get the most out of it and we purify as much negative karma that allows for success in our meditational practice and a positive rebirth.

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Re: Our Precious Human Rebirth
« Reply #12 on: March 14, 2011, 04:51:40 PM »
Well written, Big Uncle! What a great sharing here!

Thank you so much. I can read this again and again. Everything you wrote here is so helpful and serves as a valuable reminder to us all.

I believe most of us do not even realise how amazing it is to be born as we are - with all our faculties intact, with the ability to learn whatever we want and to have some liberty of achieving anything we want - if we want to do it, that is.

There is this beautiful line from "Liberation in the Palm of your hand" -

If you want to go to pure realms such as Abhirati, Sukhavati, or Tushita, you can do so by means of this present physical rebirth. And this is not all, for you can even achieve the states of liberation or omniscience through this present rebirth - unless you don't practice...Thus this rebirth is woth more than one thousand billion precious jewels.
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Re: Our Precious Human Rebirth
« Reply #13 on: March 26, 2011, 04:24:36 PM »
Like a dream,
Whatever I enjoy
Will become a memory:
The past is not revisited

- by Shantideva


Everyday, we go about our lives, making plans as if our lives will last a long time. How many deaths have we had in the recent earthquake?! Just like us, the victims made plans and live their lives, so sure of tomorrow. We are no different... and soon will be forgotten. Life is fragile and we do not have control over it nor do we know if we will have such a precious human rebirth again.


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Re: Our Precious Human Rebirth
« Reply #14 on: March 29, 2011, 09:51:01 AM »
In the Lamrim, a story is told of a man , who doesn’t know the value of a treasure of precious gems that he discovers and puts it away or throws it away. This is like our not valuing this rare and precious human life and wasting it away in worldly pursuits of happiness.

The trouble with me and many others is that we get ‘flashes of realizations’, of how rare and precious this human life is, all the time. Like when the earthquake and tsunami hit Japan and ,in a flash, claimed so many lives of unprepared people, all not ready for death. Who is ever ready for death to happen any time? How many of us can say at night (before we sleep)that we have used our precious lives so meaningfully that we will not have any regrets should death come and steal us away in the middle of the night?

‘Realizations’ come and go like flashes of lightning. We forget the next minute when we’re pulled away by the distractions of this life. We probably have to do more serious meditations on death and impermanence , and the preciousness of a human life, on a daily basis, familiarizing our minds, all the time, with these important aspects of Dharma.  We will have to engage more in Dharma work and practice for these realizations to become embedded in our mindstreams. Also, as is said in the Lamrim, we need to accumulate a tremendous amount of merits and do a tremendous amount of self-purification, while focusing all the time on our Root Guru as the supreme field of merit. Only then , can we have true realizations that are more than just flashes of lightning.