How odd, I just read this post today - great to see it here on the forum.
It doesn't really surprise me that monks are losing relevance in Thailand. Many people looked down and pinpointed that Tibet used to be really poor, backwards and archaic. However, I feel that it was due to that reason that people were more inclined to stay in the monasteries - especially the higher-levelled incarnations. Life was physically better in the monasteries, as compared to having to slave out in the fields.
Now that on the outside of the monasteries there is the chance of becoming a doctor, engineer, businessman, rock star, rapper etc, the temptation to leave the monastery is much greater. Even the chance for a "better" life in a Western country is much more appealing than being within the walls of a monastery.
Times truly have degenerated. As materialism grows stronger, the number of Buddhist practitioners declines. Thailand is a very materialistic country. We think Thailand, we think go-go girls, bars, drinks, fun, brands, plastic surgery, cheap markets, fashion etc etc. We also do think monks, but the draw to go to Thailand are all the samsaric things.
This article is a great article in that it exposes the reality of what's currently happening.
I like what Midakpa wrote, "One must accept that most lay people do not want to be monks but that does not mean that they cannot be spiritual and if they practice, they will also have attainments. There are many references in Buddhist literature to men and women living ordinary lives who successfully practised what Buddha taught and realised nirvana."
Monks who are highly attained do leave the monasteries and go through the same samsaric ups and downs as we do. In that way what they teach is of greater relevance to us lay people as we can relate to them and they relate to us.
For lay people to be spiritual, and successfully practice what the Buddha taught, lay people would be of "more relevance" to the masses as they (we) can relate better to others.
Hope that somehow made sense! Great article