if you see a strange example, such as a Lineage Holder disrobing, getting married and having a child
So what. The great bodhisattva Vimalakirti was married, had children, and even run a business, but still was above Manjushri and other bodisattvas, and equal only to the Buddha.
The Buddha himself used to be married, and even had a child, Rahula, a deed which is included in his twelve deeds, known as “delighting in the company of the royal consorts”.
Let alone many other mahasiddhas, even Virupa, the previous incarnation of Dorje Shugden, was evicted from the Nalanda monastery after being caught partying with attractive girls is his cell.
Therefore, there could be hardly a more stupid statement than the one above, suggesting that a lineage holder could not disrobe, get married, or have children.
in contradiction with the life and values of Kyabje Trijang Rinpoche
If so, the previous Trijang Rinpoche would be in contradiction with the life and values of his own previous incarnation, Ra Lotsawa Dorje Drak, who was married and had children.
You ridiculous assumption here is that a lama's current incarnation has to be the exact clone of their previous incarnation, but you did not tell the rest of us from which book you took such a stupidity.
whilst claiming to be the Tulku of this great Lama,
Which is nothing compared to your own preposterous claim to know how a great lama should reincarnate.
and at the same time being followed by Shugden monasteries in contradiction with Je Tsongkhapa's tradition,
If so, you should be able to point to the exact passage in Je Tsongkhapa's eighteen volumes where he says that only monastics can hold his tradition.
But maybe you are just confounding NKT's corporate handbooks and policies with the pure scriptures and teachings emanating from Je Tsongkhapa.
Besides, according to your adopted NKT's corporate policies, Shugden monasteries could not follow the Buddha, let alone Saraha, Ghantapa, Luipa, Darikapa, Ra Lotsawa, and so forth.
you should question whether this is correct behaviour or not
What then precisely is “incorrect” according to you?
To marry and have children as Buddha Shakyamuni, Vimalakirti, and Ra Lotsawa-Trijang Rinpoche did? Or to disrobe as Virupa-Dorje Shugden, Saraha and Ghantapa did?
You might remember that Ghantapa, the very source of the lineage of many of Geshe Kelsang Gyatso's most profound teachings, is ironically known as “the monk who became a householder”.
As you can see, NKT, with its obsessive puritanism, and its politically-motivated, corporate-driven approach, has broken Geshe Kelsang Gyatso's lineage, and is now just a corpse, a corporate corpse.
instead of thinking "well, he's Trijang Rinpoche so he can do anything he likes".
So wrong. One should think “well, he's Trijang Rinpoche so he can only do what some greedy NKT eunuch-bureaucrat transvestite as monk allows him to do”, is it?
Using Dharma to justify such unwise behaviour would be abusing Dharma so I hope that your reference to Mahasiddha Ghantapa is not intended for this purpose.
What about abusing Dharma to ensure the survival of a caste of greedy pseudo-monks afraid of seeing the demise of their corporate NKT after Geshe Kelsang Gyatso passes away?
Otherwise, what precisely is “unwise” with Ghantapa's behavior according to you puritanistic NKT handbook? Or with Buddha's, Vimalakirti's, Virupa's, Saraha's, or Ra
Please do not close your eyes to this - the purpose of Tantra is not to excuse wrong moral behaviour. Abandoning ordinary appearance doesn't mean 'anything goes'.
I've said everything I need to say on this topic so likely I will not reply to further posts. May all beings swiftly attain enlightenment and may Je Tsongkhapa's pure tradition flourish forevermore.