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Title: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: Jessie Fong on July 28, 2012, 03:51:02 PM
Are there superstitions in Buddhism?  Or, are superstitions a cultural belief?  Or are they just old wives' tales?

It is said that seeing a rainbow is a good sign/auspicious.  Some people believe that it brings good fortune, and it is even more auspicious to see a double-arched rainbow.  Have you heard of the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow?

There is also a taboo of Always Sweeping in, Never sweeping out:
The Chinese believe that good luck enters from the front door, and bad luck leaves through the back door.  So to "pull in the luck", one should always sweep inwards from the main door towards the back door.

Hmmm I wonder if this can be applied when you vacuum instead of sweep?

Do you know of any interesting superstitions or taboos?
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: Ensapa on July 28, 2012, 04:04:38 PM
Here's an interesting thing about fridays, the number 13 and friday the 13th.

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FRIDAY
A bed changed on Friday will bring bad dreams.
Any ship that sails on Friday will have bad luck.
You should never start a trip on Friday or you will meet misfortune.
Never start to make a garment on Friday unless you can finish it the same day.

FRIDAY THE 13TH - how did Friday the thirteenth become such an unlucky day?
fear of Friday the 13th is rooted in ancient, separate bad-luck associations with the number 13 and the day Friday. The two unlucky entities combine to make one super unlucky day.

There is a Norse myth about 12 gods having a dinner party at Valhalla, their heaven. In walked the uninvited 13th guest, the mischievous Loki. Once there, Loki arranged for Hoder, the blind god of darkness, to shoot Balder the Beautiful, the god of joy and gladness, with a mistletoe-tipped arrow. Balder died and the Earth got dark. The whole Earth mourned.

There is a Biblical reference to the unlucky number 13. Judas, the apostle who betrayed Jesus, was the 13th guest to the Last Supper.

A particularly bad Friday the 13th occurred in the middle ages. On a Friday the 13th in 1306, King Philip of France arrested the revered Knights Templar and began torturing them, marking the occasion as a day of evil.
    
In ancient Rome, witches reportedly gathered in groups of 12. The 13th was believed to be the devil.

Both Friday and the number 13 were once closely associated with capital punishment. In British tradition, Friday was the conventional day for public hangings, and there were supposedly 13 steps leading up to the noose.

It is traditionally believed that Eve tempted Adam with the apple on a Friday. Tradition also has it that the Flood in the Bible, the confusion at the Tower of Babel, and the death of Jesus Christ all took place on Friday.

Numerologists consider 12 a "complete" number. There are 12 months in a year, 12 signs of the zodiac, 12 gods of Olympus, 12 labors of Hercules, 12 tribes of Israel, and 12 apostles of Jesus. In exceeding 12 by 1, 13's association with bad luck has to do with just being a little beyond completeness.

FRIDAY THE 13TH - how is fear of the number thirteen demonstarted?
More than 80 percent of high-rises lack a 13th floor.
Many airports skip the 13th gate.
Airplanes have no 13th aisle.
Hospitals and hotels regularly have no room number 13.
Italians omit the number 13 from their national lottery.
On streets in Florence, Italy, the house between number 12 and 14 is addressed as 12 and a half.
Many cities do not have a 13th Street or a 13th Avenue
In France, socialites known as the quatorziens (fourteeners) once made themselves available as 14th guests to keep a dinner party from an unlucky fate.
Many triskaidekaphobes, as those who fear the unlucky integer are known, point to the ill-fated mission to the moon, Apollo 13.
If you have 13 letters in your name, you will have the devil's luck . Jack the Ripper, Charles Manson, Jeffrey Dahmer, Theodore Bundy and Albert De Salvo all have 13 letters in their names.
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: sonamdhargey on July 28, 2012, 04:58:19 PM
Here are the list of superstitions from India :)

I had made a list of superstition followed blindly in India on facebook, posting it here. Please contribute the superstitions that you have come across.

1. A sack full of rice will be spoilt when touched by women in periods! it will also get spoilt if touched by women after having sex

2. Coconut tree, Ashoka Tree, Banyan Tree etc are considered sacred

3. The tail end of cows is considered as most sacred part as fortune Lakshmi lives there!!,

4. The "VAASTU" as a guide for floor plans of a house is a superstitious system,

5. East is the most preferred direction for all activities (I've seen some of them preferring to sit facing east even in the office),

6. Do not proceed , if a cat crosses your way, it brings omen

7. Looking at cat in the morning is jinx,

8. Looking at mother's face or picture of God as soon as you open your eyes in the morning will bring good luck for that day,

9. Giving or taking anything in the left hand is bad (you know what left hand is used for in India  )

10. Never ask the question "where are you going? " while they are leaving house, its purpose will not be fulfilled.

11. Repeatedly yawning  indicates that someone is remembering you,

12. Sneezing odd no. of times indicates that something bad could happen,

13. Sneezing once when you make a statement indicates that what you said is true,

14. If a lizard makes a sound when you make a statement, it indicates that what you said is true ,

15. Tuesdays & Saturdays are inauspicious for doing anything new or good deeds,

16. Monday is inauspicious day for shaving and thursday is inauspicious day for washing one's hair.

17. You can't have non-veg on certain days,

18. There is particular timing during daytime called "Rahukaal", where it is considered as inauspicious for doing anything new or good deeds,

19. There are two months in a year which are inauspicious,

20. No moon day is inauspicious,

21. Right eye twitching is good for men, left eye twitching is good for women.

22. Never sleep with your head facing north or west,

23. cawing of crow or itching of right palm indicates arrival of guests,

24. Never wash the front courtyard immediately after someone leaves the house,

25. If there is itching on the right palm (left for female) you can get some money or favors,

26. Unusual winking of eyes is a symptom of ill, luck or decease,

27. Going below the ladder is jinx,

28. Never cross or jump across the worshiped pumpkins or coconuts on the road.

29. During house warming ceremony, the milk is heated in a vessel in such a way that it will overflow towards east direction,

30. If you see cat giving birth, then it brings the good luck

31. Open the front door during dusk, so that Lakshmi (fortune) enters the house

32. Never sweep the house during night time or Lakshmi (fortune) will not enter your house.

33. Cutting nails, hair-cutting, shaving or stitching cloth after sun set is a bad practice, (obviously coz of no electricity during old times, doing these in the dark could be dangerous, but its still believed to be a bad practice),

34. Taking a teaspoon of curd with litle sugar before exam will bring good luck

Source: http://nirmukta.net/Thread-Superstitions-in-India (http://nirmukta.net/Thread-Superstitions-in-India)
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: bambi on July 29, 2012, 07:39:32 AM
Interesting topic, Jessie. I don't believe that there are superstitions in Buddhism. Well, not that I know of at least. For me personally, I don't believe in it as I find that it doesn't make much sense. However, my relatives are so when I am with them, I try my best not to disagree and just follow the rhythm. I remember when I was young, I like to blow the whistle and my mum would freak out because she said that it will attract something. No idea why though.  ???

Japanese superstitions

- The number four:
The number four is considered inauspicious because it is pronounced the same as the word for death (shi). Therefore, one should not make presents that consist of four pieces, etc. In some hotels and hospitals the room number four is skipped.

- Stick chopsticks into the rice:
Do not stick your chopsicks into your food generally, but especially not into rice, because only at funerals, chopsticks are stuck into the rice which is put onto the altar.

- Give food from chopstick to chopstick:
This is only done with the bones of the cremated body at funerals.

- Sleeping towards the North:
Do not sleep towards the North beacause bodies are laid down like that.

- Funeral Car:
If a funeral car passes you should hide your thumb.

- Cut nails at night:
If you cut your nails at night, you will not be with your parents when they die.

- Lie down after eating:
If you lie down immediately after eating, you will become a cow.

- Whistle in the night:
If you whistle in the night, a snake will come to you.

- Black cat:
There are also some imported superstitions such as the believe that black cats crossing the street in front of you cause bad luck.
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: Tenzin K on July 29, 2012, 10:25:28 AM
Below are some of the superstitions from what I observe in Hong Kong. Personally I don't believe but it can be quite funny.


1. Dirty Doings
Put your feet up and relax. Certainly the most enjoyable of the Chinese New Year superstitions, sweeping and cleaning is strictly forbidden. The Chinese believe cleaning means you'll sweep all of your good luck out the front door.

2. Time to Come Clean
Before you can enjoy number two, you need to give the house a full spring clean, before putting cleaning tools in the cupboard on New Year's Eve.

3. Read Between the Lines
Be sure to stock up on reading materials before Chinese New Year, as Hong Kong's bookshops will be padlocked tight. In Cantonese, book is a homonym for 'lose'.

4. Choppy Waters
Make sure you avoid rough seas in the new year by not buying shoes over the holiday period. In Cantonese, shoes are a homonym for 'rough'.

5. Balance the Books
If you're in debt, it's time to dip into your pockets and pay people off. The Chinese believe that if you start the new year in the red, you'll finish it the same way.

6. Ghostly Conversations
Caught round a campfire over the holiday period? No ghost stories. Tales of death, dying and ghosts is considered supremely inauspicious, especially during Chinese New Year.

7. Lady in Red
Chinese New Year is packed with colors, and while all the colors of the rainbow bring good luck, it's the color red that is considered the ultimate luck bringer.

8. Sweet Year
Hong Kongers have a sweet touch at the best of times, but Chinese New Year offers the perfect chance to raid the sweet shop, as eating candies is said to deliver a sweeter year.

9. Feel the Breeze
Welcome in the New Year with a blast of fresh air, opening your windows is said to let in good luck.

10. Get to the Point
Sharp objects are said to be harbingers of bad luck, as their sharp points cut out your good luck, pack them away.You should also avoid the hairdressers or you'll have your good luck chopped off.
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: RedLantern on July 29, 2012, 12:29:45 PM
We have our fair share of superstitions because of beliefs and each is influenced by the others. Because of ignorance,fear and superstition we tend to accept the beliefs of others rather than studying them rationally and discarding them as being irrelevent to modern society.
Many Asian communities which consists of different ethnic group have superstition and taboos.
Some of them are not to clip their fingernails after dark nor wash their hair on certain days of the week.Some people think it is bad luck to see shaven headed religious men the first thing in the morning.whilst others will not sweep their houses after dark.
To carry meat around at night is believed to be bad as it might attract evil spirits.Howling dogs and hooting owls at night could bring bad luck and even twitching of the left eye is considered a bad omen.Some people consider these very serious issues while those who chose to ignore them are free from fear and disturbances.
What is the Buddhist attitude towards such beliefs?
All originate from our fear of the unknown.There are practical reasons for observing certain beliefs.For example
it is of course inadvisable to cut one's nails in the dark simply because one could cut one's finger in the process.
The Buddha has said that so long as we practice loving-kindness towards all beings,visible or invisible,so long as we do others no harm by living sensibly and believing in the power of the Dharma as espounded by the Buddha,so long as we develop our right understanding by studying his teachings, nothing can harm us. We have to develop our religious devotion and confidence.The temple is a place to gain more knowledge and understanding to get rid of superstitious beliefs and to eradicate undue fear in the minds of innocent people.
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: Jessie Fong on July 29, 2012, 02:32:48 PM
Here is another common superstition - have you ever wondered why salt is thrown over the left shoulder?  Find out here ....



Bad Luck: Spilling Salt - Salt used to be an expensive commodity used mainly for medicinal purposes. For this reason, spillage was to be avoided at all costs. The idea that it is unlucky to do so probably stems from the belief that Judas spilt salt during the last supper. Throwing spilt salt over the left shoulder is linked to its medicinal use. If it could not be administered, the next best thing was to throw it into the eye of the evil spirits that brought sickness upon us. These spirits were thought to lurk behind your shoulder, waiting for an opportunity to strike.
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: Q on July 29, 2012, 03:32:04 PM
Hi Jessie, Thank you for bringing up this interesting topic. As far as I know, when it comes to purely Buddhism, there is no such thing as superstitions. In fact... Buddhism does not encourage any form of superstitions and taboos. However, most of the time, Buddhism respects cultural difference and people tend to build Buddhism in their country around their culture, therefore you get many superstitions here and there. But take note, these superstitions don't come from Buddhism, but from that particular culture itself.

Because the most important aspect in Buddhism is to keep the precepts and practice the Buddha's teachings, to have cultural influence is not much of a problem unless it hinders the Dharma from benefiting others.

Some superstitions that I grew up in are:

The number four - pronounced like 'death' so it's a number that kills... though of course, never believed that from young.

Sleep facing the door - like bringing out your dead body

Cut your fingernails at night - dont know the reason why it's a taboo...

Dont leave the house if someone sneeze before going out - sign that something bad will happen if you do

Dont whistle at night - it's a melody for the snakes to come

Dont hang a red thread on a banana tree - you'll be able to see a ghost if you do

Dont play hide and seek at night - I think its because it is believed you'll be taken to the ghost realm

Dont sing while cooking - there's a reason behind the superstition, but i believe its because they dont want saliva in the food...

Dont laugh too much while playing in the morning - you'll get nightmares at night

Dont call your friend from far in the night

Dont turn to look at someone at night if the person taps on ur sholder

etc... many more, but can't remember.
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: so_003 on July 29, 2012, 04:06:16 PM
Wow.. this is such an interesting topic.... it seems there is so many types and so many belief out there/ so call taboos/ superstitions....

Well I do belief some of the things/story mention above. I also heard one is that never take meat of wild animals while one is pregnant as baby would be born either unwell/deformed/unhealthy and so on.

at the bottom are some of the ad on...

Do not step on the used joystick where every you are as it brings bad luck.

Do not call your friends name when hiking in the jungle.

When driving in highway if see spirit in the car don't look back, look for a tall tree and walk reverse 3 times and the spirit will leave you and your car.

I'm sure that this topic will go on for sometime as is interesting and also seeing different religion,culture and country have different taboos.

Continue sharing.

Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: Vajraprotector on July 29, 2012, 04:21:00 PM
Thailand is a Buddhist country yet there are also many superstitions. However, I think these superstitions do have some karmic/ Buddhist basic. Spirit houses are actually the most prominent indication of the importance that belief in the spirits plays in everyday Thai life.

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Outside every Thai home, hotel, hospital, or office building there is always a modest but brightly painted house, carefully positioned at a level that is slightly higher than the eye line of a standing person. This is the home of Phra Phum, the Lord of the land, and when a new home is to be built, the first thing Thai people do is to find a suitable place in the garden for the spirit house.

Selection of the exact spot for this dwelling can only properly be done by someone well versed in spirit lore, and these special souls are believed to able to communicate directly with the other side. The house must face either north or south, but preferably north, and must not be located where the owner larger house overshadows it otherwise the spirits will not come to live in it. Once divined, a post is set up at the chosen site, and the little house is perched on top.

It generally contains a single room with an outer terrace, where daily offerings to the guardian spirit are placed. A symbolic picture of the spirit is also carved on a small piece of wood inside the little house, with its back to the wall, and at the time of installation, food, fruit, candles, incense, and flowers are placed on a table before the shrine, while the spirit is invited to come and make his home there and to protect the property and the residents of the new house.

From that day onwards, fresh flowers, incense, and candles are regularly placed on the small gallery outside, and specially prepared food is offered to the spirits on important occasions such as the anniversary of the building, birthdays, deaths, and the lunar New Year.

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These figurines, symbolising protective spirits, are being washed and will then be placed back into their spirit house amid hopes that they will be grateful and keep the area safe.
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: harrynephew on July 29, 2012, 10:53:33 PM
Most races have their own taboos. In Singapore where I am currently in, perhaps people here have more than a fair share of them because the three major ethnic groups have their own animistic beliefs and each is influenced by the others. Because of ignorance, fear and superstition each group tends to accept the beliefs of others rather than studying them rationally and discarding them as being irrelevant to modern society. For example many Asian communities believe that they must not clip their finger nails after dark nor wash their hair on certain days of the week. Some people think that it is bad luck to see shaven headed religious men the first thing in the morning whilst others will not sweep their houses after dark.

It is even believed to be bad to carry meat around at night for fear that it might attract evil spirits. Some parents advise their children to carry a piece of metal to protect themselves from ghosts. Then there are those who believe that howling dogs and hooting owls at night could bring bad luck and that a twitching of the left eye is a bad omen. Some people consider these as very serious issues. But those who ignore them are free from fear and disturbances.

What is the Buddhist attitude towards such beliefs? Where does rational thinking end and superstition begin? All seem to originate in our fear of the unknown. Sometimes there are practical reasons for observing certain beliefs. For example it is of course inadvisable to cut one’s fingernails in the dark simply because one could cut one’s finger in the process.

As far as evil spirits are concerned the Buddha has said that so long as we practise loving-kindness towards all beings, visible and invisible, so long as we do others no harm by living sensibly and believing in the power of the Dhamma or the Truth as expounded by the Buddha, and so long as we develop our right understanding by studying his Teachings, nothing can harm us. This again means we have to develop our religious devotion and confidence by visiting the temple regularly, and by having useful discussions with religious teachers so as to enrich our understanding of the Dhamma. The temple must be a place where people can gain more knowledge and understanding to get rid of superstitious beliefs and to eradicate undue fear in the minds of innocent people.
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: DS Star on July 29, 2012, 11:56:42 PM
I notice one particularly interesting 'object' in some of the comments: the taboos of bad luck or bad omen related to black cat.

Seems the ability of the cat to see in the dark and its black color blending into darkness could be the reason for it... nevertheless ghost movies always associate evil spirits with black cat like the popular horror classic "The Omen".

Upon research I found that the superstitions on cats, especially black cat is very strong in many different cultures; cats had caused a country to be conquered and even great kings or conquerors terrified at the sight of it.

"During the Persian invasion of 529 B.C.E., the Egyptians' deification of the cat proved their undoing. Knowing of the obsession of the Egyptian people with the divinity of felines, Cambyses II, king of the Persians, made a cat part of the standard issue to each of his soldiers. The Nile-dwellers led by King Psamtik III laid down their spears and bows for fear of harming the cat that each enemy soldier carried, and the Persians conquered the city of Pelusium without shedding a drop of blood.

Some people believe that the unwavering stare of the cat can bring about illness or insanity or even cause death. Such an unreasoning, fearful response to cats is known as ailurophobia. Henry III of England (1207–1272) would faint at the sight of a cat. Adolf Hitler (1889–1945) had plans to dominate the world with his Third Reich, but the sight of a cat set him trembling. Napoleon Bonaparte (1769– 1821) arrogantly snatched the crown of the Holy Roman Emperor from the pope and conquered nearly all Europe, but when he spotted a cat in his palace, he shouted for help.

Such dread of cats may be genetically transmitted: when Joseph Bonaparte (1768– 1844), King of Naples, visited Saratoga Springs in 1825, he complained just before he fainted that he sensed a cat's presence. Although his hosts assured His Majesty that no such animal was anywhere present, a persistent search revealed a kitten hiding in a sideboard
."

http://www.unexplainedstuff.com/Superstitions-Strange-Customs-Taboos-and-Urban-Legends/Superstitions-Cats.html#b (http://www.unexplainedstuff.com/Superstitions-Strange-Customs-Taboos-and-Urban-Legends/Superstitions-Cats.html#b)
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: Rihanna on July 30, 2012, 07:01:47 AM
Taiwanese are a superstitious community. Although I do not know believe but here are afew that I have heard:

1. If you whistle at night, spirits might follow you home. Although I did not believe in this Taiwanese superstition, it took on manic dimensions as we approach ghost month hence I have been warned by friends not to whistle at night.

2. 'Ghost Month' is the time around August when ghosts come back and roam the earth. Taiwanese people will not leave their house late at night (especially after 12 midnight) and they will not whistle at all for fear the ghosts will follow them. They also will not leave laundry out at night during ghost month. The Taiwanese superstition is that if clothes are left out at night, the ghosts will try to wear them. I was also warned against swimming in the ocean. It is believed that if you swim in the ocean during ghost month, a ghost could come and exchange their soul with yours. Many Taiwanese people will not get within a hundred yards of the ocean during this month for this reason.

3. After a woman delivers her baby, she is not allowed to leave her house for one month. In some extreme cases, she is not allowed to leave her room too! During this month, she is also not allowed to wash her hair, according to the Taiwanese superstition. If she washes her hair or leave the house, she will get sick. Another one of the Taiwanese superstitions is that if a pregnant woman uses scissors, her baby will be born with a hare lip.

4. Another Taiwanese superstition involves noodles. On your birthday, you eat noodles. The lengthy noodles are supposed to help give you a longer life. If you cut these noodles before you eat them though, you are in for some bad news.

5. Taiwanese never leave their chopsticks in their food. To them it resembles the incense that is burned when someone dies and is a negative thing to do.

6. When giving 'hong pow" (red packet), amounts that are odd figure is highly discouraged. Taiwanese only give amounts in even figure for auspicious occasion and odd figures during bereavement.

7. Pregnant ladies are not allowed to watch horror movies. It is believed that if she does and gets scared by the object, her baby will look like that scary object. The same restriction in visiting a zoo for pregnant ladies too for fear that her baby will end up looking like a monkey!

I wonder if Westeners have superstitions. I have never lived anywhere outside Taipei all my life and would be interesting if some Westerners can comment.
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: Ensapa on July 30, 2012, 04:25:18 PM
Here are a list of odd western superstitions that I grew up with:

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1. A bird in the house is a sign of a death

2. A loaf of bread should never be turned upside down after a slice has been cut from it.

3. Never take a broom along when you move. Throw it out and buy a new one.

4. If the first butterfly you see in the year is white, you will have good luck all year.

5. If a black cat walks towards you, it brings good fortune, but if it walks away, it takes the good luck with it.



6. An acorn at the window will keep lightning out

7. A dog howling at night when someone in the house is sick is a bad omen.

8. It’s bad luck to leave a house through a different door than the one used to come into it.

9. A horseshoe hung in the bedroom will keep nightmares away.

10. If you catch a falling leaf on the first day of autumn you will not catch a cold all winter.



 


11. If a mirror in the house falls and breaks by itself, someone in the house will die soon.

12. Dropping an umbrella on the floor means that there will be a murder in the house.

13. All windows should be opened at the moment of death so that the soul can leave.

14. If the groom drops the wedding band during the ceremony, the marriage is doomed.

15. To dream of a lizard is a sign that you have a secret enemy.



16. If a friend gives you a knife, you should give him a coin, or your friendship will soon be broken.

17. You should never start a trip on Friday or you will meet misfortune.

18. Dream of running: a sign of a big change in your life.

19. If a clock which has not been working suddenly chimes, there will be a death in the family.

20. It is bad luck to light three cigarettes with the same match.
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: bambi on August 03, 2012, 09:14:21 AM
African-American superstitions originate from a mixture of ancient African religion, Native American traditions, and European folklore.

1.   Step on a crack, break your mother’s back.

2.   If your ear is ringing someone is talking about you.

3. Don’t cut a baby’s hair before his/her first birthday.

4.Sunshine,Raining, and Thunder at the same time: The devil is beating his wife.

5.   If you keep making funny faces, one day it will get stuck that way.

6.    If your palm is itching that means that you are coming into some money.

7.   Don’t talk on the phone or turn on the TV while it is thundering and lightning.

8. Don’t put your purse on the floor or you’ll stay broke.

9.   Don’t go to the zoo when you are pregnant.

10.   Fish dreams means that someone is having a baby.

11.   Animals know when you are pregnant.

12.   If you break a mirror, you will have 7 years of bad luck.

13.   It’s bad luck to cross a black cat’s path.

14.   Never buy your boyfriend or husband shoes as a gift. Because he’ll walk out your life with them.

15.   You will catch a death of cold by walking around with wet hair.

16. Girls are carried high; boys are carried low.

17.  If you allow children to sweep the floor, they will sweep up unwanted guests.

18.   When you cross the railroad tracks you touch a screw for safe crossings.

19.   Never put your hat on a bed, or you will have bad luck (or worse die).

20.   Splitting the Pole Gives you bad luck.

Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: Jessie Fong on August 03, 2012, 11:52:36 AM

I list these classic Chinese superstitions - have you heard of all / any of the below?

When having a baby
*If you're pregnant, use of glue will cause a difficult birth.
*If you strike an animal during pregnancy, the newborn child will look like that animal and behave like one.
*You should never praise a newborn baby because it will invite evil spirits and ghosts.
*A baby with more than one hair crown will be mischievous and disobedient.
*A baby with wide and thick ears will live prosperously.

Before you get married

*Couples with the same surname cannot marry; even if they are not related, they still belong to the same ancestry.
*A boy, preferably born a Dragon, must roll over the newlywed's matrimonial bed to ensure good luck and a baby boy.

Good Feng Shui

*It is bad luck to have two room doors face each other.
*The dining area should not be under a second-floor toilet.

Going to funerals

*Statues of deities must be covered with red cloth of paper.
*Mirrors must be hidden; a person who sees the reflection of the coffin will have a death in his/her family.
*The deceased's children and grandchildren should not cut their hair for 49 days.
*After leaving a wake, do not go straight home lest the ghost of the dead follows you.

Lucky and unlucky numbers
*The luckiest number is eight because its Chinese word also means "prosper".
*The unluckiest number is four as it sounds like the Chinese word for death.
*The number "9" is good, because nine in Cantonese sounds like the word "sufficient".

Things you should never do

*Never point at the moon or your ears might get chopped off.
*Don't sweep the floor on New Year's Day lest you sweep away the good fortune.

Source(s):
http://www.chinatownconnection.com/chine (http://www.chinatownconnection.com/chine)…
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: brian on August 03, 2012, 01:14:15 PM
In Tibetan's tradition (i was once told), when one sees rainbows when they are doing something good and beneficial to the people around, it tells you that the deity around the area are very pleased. This is considered auspicious that whatever things you are doing then will bring a tremendous benefit to others in the region or area.

Same goes to drizzling when something good is being done, i came to know that this is also a sign where the deities are very happy for what is going on in the area. And if it does pour down heavily soon after the drizzle, it means this is really really auspicious sign.
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: buddhalovely on August 08, 2012, 02:55:43 PM
20 Weird Superstitions

1. A bird in the house is a sign of a death

2. A loaf of bread should never be turned upside down after a slice has been cut from it.

3. Never take a broom along when you move. Throw it out and buy a new one.

4. If the first butterfly you see in the year is white, you will have good luck all year.

5. If a black cat walks towards you, it brings good fortune, but if it walks away, it takes the good luck with it.

6. An acorn at the window will keep lightning out

7. A dog howling at night when someone in the house is sick is a bad omen.

8. It’s bad luck to leave a house through a different door than the one used to come into it.

9. A horseshoe hung in the bedroom will keep nightmares away.

10. If you catch a falling leaf on the first day of autumn you will not catch a cold all winter.

11. If a mirror in the house falls and breaks by itself, someone in the house will die soon.

12. Dropping an umbrella on the floor means that there will be a murder in the house.

13. All windows should be opened at the moment of death so that the soul can leave.

14. If the groom drops the wedding band during the ceremony, the marriage is doomed.

15. To dream of a lizard is a sign that you have a secret enemy.

16. If a friend gives you a knife, you should give him a coin, or your friendship will soon be broken.

17. You should never start a trip on Friday or you will meet misfortune.

18. Dream of running: a sign of a big change in your life.

19. If a clock which has not been working suddenly chimes, there will be a death in the family.

20. It is bad luck to light three cigarettes with the same match.
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: Ensapa on August 08, 2012, 04:05:28 PM
Here's some russian superstitions.

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Russian superstitions
Russians are a very superstitious folk, they do a whole host of strange or unusual things to ward off the bad luck and welcome in a bit of good luck. This humble editor once found herself chased around a bar by someone who wanted to step on her foot. Why? Because if you step on someone’s foot and they don’t step back on yours you will be bringing some bad luck and conflict for both of you. Russia is indeed a strange and mysterious land, but if you can understand something about the wonderful folklore and superstitions of the Russian people you’ll get a lot closer to the heart of this enigmatic culture. Here are just a few pointers to get you started.

Bad luck be gone

According to Russians there are many things that you can do to bring bad luck upon your home. Whistling inside your home or office will cause you to lose money. Remember there’s a financial crisis at the moment and anything you can to do to prevent economic breakdown should be done. In the same vein if you want to give someone a wallet or purse as a gift, remember to put some money in it or you’ll be bringing poverty upon them!

Also be careful not to leave bags or purses on the floor, you’ll lose your money (or someone will probably just steal it). One of the most popular superstitions in Russia regards returning home when you’ve forgotten something. It may sound illogical but,  if you’ve forgotten something you shouldn’t go back. If you really need to go back, just make sure to look in a mirror before you leave the house again and you should be ok.

If a black cat crosses in front of you, be prepared for a terrible day. To offset the potential bad luck it is said that you should walk backwards away from the cat… and if you see a woman with an empty bucket coming towards you - run! She will also bring you misfortune.

Family matters

When it comes to family there are also special rules which apply to ensure that bad spirits and the famous ‘evil eye’ will not get at your loved ones. Firstly - no baby showers. You should only buy gifts for the child once it’s been born. Plus if you want to visit your friends new born, it’s best to leave it until at least a month after the birth or you could unintentionally give him/her some serious negative energies.

Women wanting to marry should watch out not to sit on the corner of a table, sitting here will leave you single for a whole seven years! If someone from your home is setting of on a trip, don’t wash their clothes while they are away. It may mean that they will never come back. Also if someone comes to visit you and you don’t want them to see them again, you should clean the floor immediately after they leave. And that broom that you just used to sweep the floor? Keep it in the corner where you can see it, it should bring you good luck and keep bad house spirits at bay.

Tricking fate

Sometimes in Russia there are said to be certain things that you can do to ensure you have good luck too. For luck in exams some people put 5 roubles in their shoe or even shout at windows. Many people like to wear safety pins somewhere on their person, usually somewhere hidden. Why? Because wearing an old safety pin will protect you from that terrible evil eye of course.

Certain rare items that you can find also hold good luck such as lilac. If you find a lilac flower with an odd number of petals - congratulations! Likewise a bus ticket with a number such as 243153 is very lucky.  The first three numbers (2+4+3=9) and the second set of numbers (1+5+3=9 ) add up to the same amount and so it’s a winner. Such tickets like the flowers are extremely lucky and you should eat them. Yes, lucky tokens such as these need to be eaten to release their good luck powers.

Omens

Many things can happen in a Russian’s life that will reveal something about his future. For example if a spoon falls to the floor it means the next person to enter the room will be a good, kind woman. If it’s a fork it will be an angry woman and a knife falling indicates a man’s arrival. If your nose itches you’ll be drinking soon and if you start hiccupping then someone is thinking about you. To stop the hiccups you should figure out who it is that’s thinking about you and they’ll be gone.

If your right hand itches, you're going to get money soon or meet someone soon. If your left hand itches, you're going to give money away. And how about this? Someone sneezes while you’re saying something. This is proof for everyone that you’re telling the truth - might be a good idea to tell your lawyer about that one.

One of the darkest omens is that of the bird. A bird flying into your house will bring death, although if a bird poos on your head it means you’ll have good luck - yes that wonderful Russian logic again.

Lucky places

There are some lucky sights in St. Petersburg that you really shouldn’t miss, for example:

Chizhik Pizhik  -  This tiny little bronze bird is installed half way up the embankment of the Fontanka next to the Engineers castle (opposite the summer gardens). Although little Chizhik Pizhik has only been resident since 1994, a local legend has sprung up that if your coin lands on his little shelf, then you will one day return to St. Petersburg. It was designed by Georgian artist Rezo Gabriadze, who said, "Chizhik Pizhik helps students to get through unhappy love-affairs and get around on public transport without having tickets."

The hare saved from the flood – Ioannovsky Most. As you walk over the bridge to the Peter and Paul Fortress, keep an eye to the left for a little hare on a pillar in the water. Land a rouble at his feet and you’ll be seeing some good fortune.

The cat Vasilisa – Malaya Sadovaya 7. If you’re walking up Malaya Sadovaya from Nevsky prospect, look up to your right and you’ll see a little cat on a ledge – Vasilisa the city’s defender against rats. If you can get a coin on to her ledge it’s your lucky day. If you can’t see her she may well have fallen off. She has been known to disappear as people have attempted to climb up there and grab some pennies.

Bankovsky Most – Canal Griboedeva 30. Before you cross over the bridge, put you hand on one of the feet of the lions and make a wish. As you cross the bridge, it’s believed your wishes will come true!
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: pgdharma on August 09, 2012, 01:42:08 PM
I don’t belief in superstitions as I feel that superstition is associated with blind beliefs which could stem from a combination of primitive belief systems and coincidence. Superstition is called old wives tales as people usually associate blind beliefs with literary and simplicity. However, superstitions can spring from well read, well informed people and even sportsman. So it shows that superstitions can be old or modern. It can be scientific or otherwise. Below are some interesting facts on the do and don’t to avoid bad luck in sports.

Sports Superstitions

Players and fans alike have their ways of avoiding bad luck.

Some sports superstitions are stranger than others. For example, Michael Jordan (a graduate of North Carolina) always wore his blue North Carolina shorts under his Bulls uniform for good luck.

Baseball players may be the most superstitious. Pitcher Turk Wendell brushes his teeth and chews licorice between every inning. Wade Boggs would eat only chicken the day of a game, and used to draw a symbol that means “To Life” in the dirt before every at-bat. Former pitcher Mark “The Bird” Fidrych used to play with the dirt on the mound and talk to himself and the ball before he pitched.

Red Sox shortstop Nomar Garciaparra gets dressed the same way every day, makes sure to step on each dugout step with both feet, and tugs at his batting gloves and taps his toes during each at-bat.

Here are some common superstitions in the world of sports.

Baseball

•   Spitting into your hand before picking up the bat is said to bring good luck.
•   A wad of gum stuck on a player's hat brings good luck.
•   It is bad luck if a dog walks across the diamond before the first pitch.
•   Some players believe it is good luck to step on one of the bases before running off the field at the end of an inning.
•   It is bad luck to touch the baselines while running off and onto the field between innings.
•   Lending a bat to a fellow player is a serious jinx.
•   Some players actually sleep with their bat to break out of a hitting slump or stay in a groove.
•   If a pitcher is throwing a perfect game or a no-hitter, never speak of it while it's going on.

Basketball

•   The last person to shoot a basket during the warm-up will have a good game.
•   Wipe the soles of your sneakers for good luck.
•   Bounce the ball before taking a foul shot for good luck.

Bowling

•   To continue a winning streak, wear the same clothes.
•   The number 300, a perfect score, on your license plate will increase your score.
•   Carry charms on your bowling bag, in your pockets, or around your neck for good luck.

Fishing


•   Fish may not bite if a barefoot woman passes you on the way to the dock.
•   Spit on your bait before casting your rod to make fish bite.
•   Throw back your first catch for good luck.
•   It is bad luck to change rods while fishing.
•   Don't tell anyone how many fish you've caught until you're done or you won't catch another.

Football

•   Double numbers on a player's uniform brings good luck.
•   It's bad luck for a professional football player to take a new number when he is traded to another team.
•   A mascot is an important good luck symbol.

Golf

•   Start only with odd-numbered clubs.
•   Balls with a number higher than 4 are bad luck.
•   Carry coins in your pockets for good luck.

Ice Hockey


•   It is bad luck for hockey sticks to lie crossed.
•   It is bad luck to say “shutout” in the locker room before a game.
•   Players believe they'll win the game if they tap the goalie on his shin pads before a game.
•   Many players must put their pads and skates on in exactly the same order every day.

Rodeo

•   Always put the right foot in the stirrup first.
•   Avoid wearing the color yellow.
•   Always shave before a competition (for men only!)

Tennis


•   It's bad luck to hold more than two balls at a time when serving.
•   Avoid wearing the color yellow.
•   Walk around the outside of the court when switching sides for good luck.
•   Avoid stepping on the court lines.

Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: Ensapa on August 11, 2012, 02:34:59 PM
You'd imagine that astronauts, being men of science would not be superstitious right, but they are!

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NASA Traditions
On the day of their launch, many NASA astronauts eat scrambled eggs and steak, as a tribute to astronaut Alan Shepard, who ate this breakfast before his Mercury Freedom 7 flight in 1961.
Before a launch, the commander must play cards (supposedly either Blackjack or 5-card poker) with the tech crew until he loses a hand. The tradition’s origins are a mystery, but it may have begun during the two-man Gemini missions.
The suit-up room, where astronauts must wait an hour while purging their bodies of nitrogen, contains the same recliner chairs as it did during the Apollo era.
After the shuttle orbiter was successfully transported from the Orbital Processing Facility to the Vehicle Assembly Building, the managers would provide the team with round donuts and bagels. It may have to do with the fact that these foods are round like the wheels of the shuttle transporter.
After a successful launch at Kennedy Space Center, the launch controllers enjoy a hearty meal of beans and cornbread. The tradition started when Former NASA Test Director Chief Norm Carlson brought in a small crock-pot of beans after the first space shuttle launch, STS-1. Here’s his recipe (.pdf).
Dating back at least to the Apollo missions, astronauts have awoken in space to music chosen by mission control, such as Dean Martin’s “Going Back to Houston.”
Gene Kranz, the famous mission controller of Apollo 13, had his wife make him a new waistcoat for each mission. As Kranz worked to save the crew of Apollo 13, he was wearing a white vest, as depicted in the 1995 film. The vest is now displayed in the Smithsonian National Air and Space Museum in Washington.
After a launch at Kennedy Space Center, it is customary for rookie launch directors, test directors and engineers to have their neckties cut (an aviation tradition following a pilot’s first solo flight).


   Russian/Soviet Traditions
Before leaving the Star City training complex near Moscow, Soyuz flight crews leave red carnations at the Memorial Wall in memory of first man in space, Yuri Gagarin, and four other cosmonauts. They visit Gagarin’s office, sign his guestbook, and supposedly ask his ghost for permission to fly.
As the train that carries the Soyuz rocket booster approaches the Baikonur Cosmodrome, people place coins on the tracks to be flattened into good-luck charms.
The crew are forbidden to attend the rollout of the Soyuz rocket to the launchpad because it is said to be bad luck; instead, they must have a haircut on this day.
The night before launch, cosmonauts attend a mandatory screening of the 1969 cult movie “White Sun of the Desert.”
On launch day, the cosmonauts have a champagne breakfast and autograph their hotel room door.
At the hotel, a Russian Orthodox priest blesses the Soyuz crew and sprinkles them with holy water. This is a post-Soviet tradition, started by cosmonaut Aleksandr Viktorenko, who requested a blessing before the Soyuz TM-20 crew’s launch to Mir.
As the crew leaves the hotel, the Soviet-era rock song “The Grass Near My Home“ is played by the band Zemlyane (“The Earthlings”).
The cosmonauts travel to the launchpad in buses outfitted with horseshoes for good luck.
On their way to the launch, Russian cosmonauts are known to urinate on the right rear wheel of their transfer bus, an act supposedly performed by Yuri Gagarin. Female cosmonauts are excused, but certain women have been known to carry vials of their urine to spill in solidarity.
The Soyuz capsule carries a small talisman hung from a string, chosen by the crew commander, which signifies when weightlessness is achieved.

I guess superstitions are part of human culture and how they work and operate. There is no escape!
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: ilikeshugden on August 12, 2012, 01:12:08 PM
I think that superstitions are usually old wives tales and most of the results from these superstitions are usually just coincidences. I believe that Buddhism does not believe in such superstitions. I think that superstitions are usually a cultural belief. For example, in some countries a black cat is lucky but it is unlucky in others.
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: ratanasutra on August 12, 2012, 04:12:11 PM
i believe Buddhism does not believe in superstitions things. These superstitions which many people still follow as it been told to us by our elderly people in our family or it blend in our culture. Here are some of superstitions things which people in my country believe.

1) Whistling at night
Avoid whistling at night.  According to the old folks, doing so is sure to attract the attention of wandering spirits who then follow you home. Well, the thought of whistling a tune in the darkness of the night is itself already a scary scenario.

2) Crows bring bad news
When a pair of black crows suddenly confronts you i.e. looks directly at you from a tree or rooftop, look on it as a warning not to sign any important documents or meet anyone important that day. Cancel all your important appointments immediately as the crows are said to be the bringers of bad news. Colourful birds however bring news of good things coming while birds of prey such as eagles denote some authoritative or honourable title being conferred on you.
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: Ensapa on August 15, 2012, 10:26:53 AM
Here are 13 more superstitions to how how silly people can be in more ways than one.

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13. Beginner's luck

Usually grumbled by an expert who just lost a game to a novice, "beginner's luck" is the idea that newbies are unusually likely to win when they try out a sport, game or activity for the first time.

Beginners might come out ahead in some cases because the novice is less stressed out about winning. Too much anxiety, after all, can hamper performance. Or it could just be a statistical fluke, especially in chance-based gambling games.

Or, like many superstitions, a belief in beginner's luck might arise because of confirmation bias. Confirmation bias is a psychological phenomenon in which people are more likely to remember events that fit their worldview. If you believe you're going to win because you're a beginner, you're more likely to remember all the times you were right — and forget the times you ended up in last place.

12. Find a penny, pick it up …

And all day long, you'll have good luck. This little ditty may arise because finding money is lucky in and of itself. But it might also be a spin-off of another old rhyme, "See a pin, pick it up/ and all day long you'll have good luck/ See a pin, let it lay/ and your luck will pass away."

11. Don't walk under that ladder!

Frankly, this superstition is pretty practical. Who wants to be responsible for stumbling and knocking a carpenter off his perch? But one theory holds that this superstition arises from a Christian belief in the Holy Trinity: Since a ladder leaning against a wall forms a triangle, "breaking" that triangle was blasphemous.

Then again, another popular theory is that a fear of walking under a ladder has to do with its resemblance to a medieval gallows. We're sticking with the safety-first explanation for this one.

10. Black cats crossing your path

As companion animals for humans for thousands of years, cats play all sorts of mythological roles. In ancient Egypt, cats were revered; today, Americans collectively keep more than 81 million cats as pets.

So why keep a black cat out of your path? Most likely, this superstition arises from old beliefs in witches and their animal familiars, which were often said to take the form of domestic animals like cats.

9. A rabbit's foot will bring you luck

Talismans and amulets are a time-honored way of fending off evil; consider the crosses and garlic that are supposed to keep vampires at bay. Rabbit feet as talismans may hark back to early Celtic tribes in Britain. They may also arise from hoodoo, a form of African-American folk magic and superstition that blends Native American, European and African tradition. [Rumor or Reality: The Creatures of Cryptozoology]

8. Bad luck comes in threes

Remember confirmation bias? The belief that bad luck comes in threes is a classic example. A couple things go wrong, and believers may start to look for the next bit of bad luck. A lost shoe might be forgotten one day, but seen as the third in a series of bad breaks the next.

7. Careful with that mirror

According to folklore, breaking a mirror is a surefire way to doom yourself to seven years of bad luck. The superstition seems to arise from the belief that mirrors don't just reflect your image; they hold bits of your soul. That belief led people in the old days of the American South to cover mirrors in a house when someone died, lest their soul be trapped inside.

Like the number three, the number seven is often associated with luck. Seven years is a long time to be unlucky, which may be why people have come up with counter-measures to free themselves after breaking a mirror. These include touching a piece of the broken mirror to a tombstone or grinding the mirror shards into powder.

6. 66

Three sixes in a row give some people the chills. It's a superstition that harks back to the Bible. In the Book of Revelation, 666 is given as the number of the "beast," and is often interpreted as the mark of Satan and a sign of the end times.

According to State University of New York at Buffalo anthropologist Philips Stevens, the writer of Revelation was writing to persecuted Christians in code, so the numbers and names in the book are contemporary references. Three sixes in a row is probably the numeric equivalent of the Hebrew letters for the first-century Roman Emperor Nero. [End of the World? Top Doomsday Fears]

5. Knock on wood

This phrase is almost like a verbal talisman, designed to ward off bad luck after tempting fate: "Breaking that mirror didn't bring me any trouble, knock on wood."

The fixation on wood may come from old myths about good spirits in trees or from an association with the Christian cross. Similar phrases abound in multiple languages, suggesting that the desire not to upset a spiteful universe is very common.

4. Make a wish on a wishbone

The tradition of turkey bone tug-of-war goes back a long way. Legend has it that first-century Romans used to fight over dried wishbones — which they believed were good luck — and would accidentally break them, ushering in the idea that whoever has the largest bit of bone gets their wish. Bird bones have also been used in divination throughout history, with a supposed soothsayer throwing the bones and reading their patterns to predict the future.

3. Cross your fingers

Those wishing for luck will often cross one finger over another, a gesture that's said to date back to early Christianity. The story goes that two people used to cross index fingers when making a wish, a symbol of support from a friend to the person making the wish. (Anything associated with the shape of the Christian cross was thought to  be good luck.) The tradition gradually became something people could do on their own; these days, just saying "fingers crossed" is enough to get the message, well, across.

2. No umbrellas inside

… And not just because you'll poke someone's eye out. Opening an umbrella indoors is supposed to bring bad luck, though the origins of this belief are murky. Legends abound, from a story of an ancient Roman woman who happened to have opened her umbrella moments before her house collapsed, to the tale of a British prince who accepted two umbrellas from a visiting king and died within months. Like the "don't walk under a ladder" superstition, this seems to be a case of a myth arising to keep people from doing something that is slightly dangerous in the first place.

1. Friday the 13th

If you're not scared of Friday the 13th, you should be scared of the word used to describe those who are: friggatriskaidekaphobics. (An alternative, though just as tongue-twisty, word for the fear is "paraskevidekatriaphobia.")

For a superstition, the fear of Friday the 13th seems fairly new, dating back to the late 1800s. Friday has long been considered an unlucky day (according to Christian tradition, Jesus died on a Friday), and 13 has a long history as an unlucky number.

According to the Stress Management Center and Phobia Institute in North Carolina, about 17 million people fear Friday the 13th. Many may fall prey to the human mind's desire to associate thoughts and symbols with events.

"If anything bad happens to you on Friday the 13th, the two will be forever associated in your mind," said Thomas Gilovich, a psychologist at Cornell University. "All those uneventful days in which the 13th fell on a Friday will be ignored."
Title: Re: Superstitions / Taboos
Post by: Dondrup Shugden on February 15, 2015, 04:47:16 PM
This is such an interesting article about superstitions/taboos.  Personally I am not inclined to pay too much attention to superstitions and taboos because the believe in them can cause hesitation and procrastination to what needs to be done.

However, it is good to pay attention to your personal feelings when certain important work or event need to be executed or carried out.  Another thing is also to find the most appropriate time and day to execute would help to be efficient.

What I like to experience are auspicious signs which occur after certain activities, work or decisions and that seems to me to be an approval from the Divine.